The Reality

YOUR SILENCE IS WHAT DIGS YOUR GRAVE Do you TALK or SILENCE is golden for you? Communication is the most important part in every relationship. In a business, you have to network with people who will be of great value in your business. You do that by opening all communication channels so that it may be easy for everyone to know about your product or service and let them have a review on your business. You TALK to them through advertising your business and they also RESPOND to you by buying your product or let you render your service to them. All of this is simply by TALKING. Communicating GROWS your business because you letting everyone know about it and SILENCE destroys it. I DON'T WANT TO PREACH ABOUT BUSINESS TODAY BUT THE MAIN THING IS LET PEOPLE TALK IN ORDER TO POUR OUT ISSUES THEY KEEP INSIDE THAT HAVE TURNED TO HIDEN WOUNDS. When we go through difficult times in life we turn to keep SILENT because we believe that our problems ar...

"I WILL SHOW THEM!" This is a proverb that comes to your mind when you want to prove to people or to that one person that you can do it because you can... Well, it is good to know that you have the courage to do whatever it takes to prove that you can be the CEO/BOSS in that situation. One question I have is, DO YOU CONSIDER OTHER PEOPLE WHEN YOU PROVE A POINT? It takes me back to the days when I use to study hard in order to prove to my teaches and peers that I know what I am talking because I have read it, understood it & memories it. It made me feel great that I wanted to prove that I can be the BOSS during that point and time because I have worked hard for it and I have considered the effect it will have in my life and people around me. I had the  "I WILL SHOW THEM!" all the time in my mind. There is a point where people use this proverb in a way that destroys their lives, and not just their lives only, but of those who are connected to them. Think o...

LOOKING BACK FOR MOTIVATION MAKES YOU LOOK FORWARD TO THE PERSON YOU WANT TO BE IN FUTURE Most people in my world have stopped dreaming and trying to be themselves. They have become what they have never dreamed of and told themselves that they do not have a choice but to live the life that life chooses for them. I say we always have a choice for the kind of people we want to be, it doesn't matter the circumstances we face in life. We only have to believe in ourselves and work towards being who we want to be. Do you know that you grow up with big ideas and dreams for yourself? But you let the things that surround you destroy them because you never asked yourself "what is the solution?"  Instead, you pointed out all the negative that will prohibit you from turning your ideas and dreams into reality." I can't get a man who will marry me because I already have kids with another man who left me." Haven't you thought of showing love to a man who shows...

CONFIDENT The way we dress up every day sends a message to the world of how we feel about ourselves. When I choose an outfit in my wardrobe, I always give it a certain word that will define me on that day. There are days where you wake up feeling amazing, bold, motivated and happy. The best way to express that is through the way you want to dress up.  I am not a sports person but if I am wearing a tracksuit and sneakers, just know that I am feeling active with an aim of finishing every task with great results and be confident that I have done it correctly. For me, confidence is one quality that opens doors for me and attract the right people in my life. It is not based on the outfit only but it is attached to my personality. I walk with confidence, speak with confidence and confidently portray to people around me that they can rely on me because I can confidently handle anything that comes my way. Do you believe in yourself and make others believe in you more e...

IF YOU BELIEVE THAT YOUR BRAINS IS THE BEST WEAPON YOU HAVE, TRUST ME WHEN I SAY YOU WILL GO FAR IN LIFE. Everything we do and want to do in life starts from our minds and to our hearts before it is implemented into a real action. When we think of what we want to achieve and we dream of, it is through our brains before we put it in a paper and let it be done in action. Before you choose to study a certain Degree you program it in your mind that I want to study this and become that. Before you go party, you put in your mind that tonight I'm going to dance the night away. Before you start a business, you let it be an idea, where does that idea come from? Your mind, it is what tells you what to do and where to go and how to do everything you want to do. The same thing applies to wanting to buy a car, house and all other things you want to do. If you always think of the negative things, that is the result you will get in everything you do because you have already imagined, visual...

THE AMAZING PEOPLE I ADMIRE & WOULD LOVE TO SEE EVERYONE DOING THE SAME I  have always loved the woman in my life because I grow up seeing many things that I find very impressive in them that made me the woman I am today. Women are the strongest people whom I find very intelligent and best in doing great things in this life. The journey starts from being a girl who lives in a fantasy where she sees herself as the type of woman she wants to be in the future. Playing dress-up reviles her character in a certain way, caring for her toys & dolls show the loving mother she will become & having the ability to handle her home. The biggest roll is played by the woman who is surrounded by and at the end of the day, she chooses the one path that will define her. When you reach a phase where you become a woman, it is one great experience but it could leave you confused and not sure of which path you should take in women's hood.  There are two p...